…when he hits me but it’s not something I do on purpose :/ If you’ve ever faced that problem with a girl, how did y’all overcome it?
Why does he hate it?
“My boyfriend is saddened…” makes sense. “My boyfriend is worried…” does too. “My boyfriend is frustrated…” is even okay. But “My boyfriend hates…” sounds like someone is turning a You Thing into a Him Thing. Even if your limitations are dealbreakers, there’s no reason for them to inspire bitterness… you’re not doing that shit on purpose.
With that said, I’ve only found three ways to deal with it:
- Decades of patience.
- Break out the zip-ties.
- Learn to enjoy it when she cowers like a timid animal.