…said no 20 year old, ever.
The younger you are, the bigger the delta between who you are today and who you’ll be tomorrow… that means your behavior is less consistent (problematic for me) and the impact of my influence is dramatically more significant (problematic for you).
Again, it’s not that I’ve said “never ever never” to all 18 year olds in perpetuity. I’ve simply stated that younger girls have an extra set of hurdles they have to conquer on their way to me, and the process is often so lengthy that they’re no longer “younger girls” by the time they make it.
It shouldn’t be easy for a teenaged girl to end up an old man’s enraptured minion. The easier it is, the most trouble she’s in.