Do you think huge age gaps in relationships (both consensual adults) automatically lead to a huge power imbalance?

Usually.

And that’s the point.

Age isn’t just a number. You’re not mature for your age. He’s not young at heart. If you don’t actively want to be molded and manipulated by an old man who treats you like a child and wields his power to recast you in a form that suits him, then you’re doing it wrong.

What is an unwritten rule that you always abide to?

I’m not sure there are any unwritten rules. I mean, I’ve spent years documenting my thinking right here, and I have several little acolytes who make a habit of compiling my extemporaneous conversational mutterings like personal scripture… so if I’ve thought it, it’s probably written somewhere.… Read the rest “What is an unwritten rule that you always abide to?”

you got an anon earlier that asked about how to make herself cum/not being…

…able to feel her fingers, and i figured i’d maybe drop this in ur inbox for her bc i know what she means about the fingers thing — most folks can’t get off fingering themselves. it doesn’t feel like much, kind of like tickling yourself?

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You’re not very mean anymore you know? You’ve gone a little soft

A cunt I know —I say “I know” in the sense that I know her mind better than she does, but that’s a low bar to clear—said that she was feeling good about herself this morning. So I sent her a video of a girl with a body so unbelievably perfect that it merits sonnets and songs and a round of applause that trails it wherever it goes. … Read the rest “You’re not very mean anymore you know? You’ve gone a little soft”

What’s your go to life advice

Use what you have… some of the shit you hate about yourself could be among your strongest attributes. 

It may offend your expectations or sensibilities, but you owe it to yourself —and everyone else— to develop that shameful muscle and put it to doing useful work… there is no trophy at life’s end for Girl Who Best Hid Her Creepy/Annoying/Problematic Characteristics From The World.… Read the rest “What’s your go to life advice”

I think you mentioned sometime back that you watch Tik Toks, do you have a favourite gen z song?

What are we calling “Gen Z” in this context? Do Lana Del Rey and Lorde and Tove Lo and First Aid Kit count? If so, then there are a number of contenders.

If it needs to be late 20teens stuff, though? Fuck, I dunno.… Read the rest “I think you mentioned sometime back that you watch Tik Toks, do you have a favourite gen z song?”